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Conclusions Alienated children experience not just the loss of a parent-child relationshipdthey experience a corruption of reality that creates a loss of identity, childhood and innocence, as well as connections to their extended family and communities. Across these losses, the child is deprived of a multitude of supports and affordances that foster healthy development. Much is known about how exposure to PABs harm children. Now is the time to apply that knowledge to protect future generations of children from experiencing this pernicious form of childhood maltreatment. Funding This research did not receive any specific grant from funding agencies in the public, commercial, or not-for- profit sectors. Conflict of interest statement Nothing declared. Acknowledgements The authors would like to thank Amanda Sillars for sharing her experience as an alienated child and mother by providing the opening quote for this article. 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Need Parental role in meeting child’s needs Examples of impacts on the child due to parental alienation Physiological Buying food, clothing, housing, medicine. Fewer people to help with the procurement of food, clothing, housing, and medicine for the child. Safety Providing a clean and safe home with a predictable schedule of routines and caretaking. Fewer people to teach the child how to be safe, how to do chores, how to protect him/herself, and to protect the child from danger. Love and belonging Touching the child in a loving and affectionate manner, affirming the child’s acceptance and belonging to the extended family and community. Fewer people to touch the child in a loving and affectionate manner, affirming the child’s acceptance and belonging to the extended family and community. Esteem Creating opportunities for the child to make decisions and share his/her perspective which is valued. Fewer people to provide opportunities for the child to make decisions and share his/her perspective, which is valued. Self-actualization Providing the child with opportunities to make choices, express him or herself, explore sports and arts, develop skills, values, tastes, styles, and talents. Fewer people to provide the child with opportunities to make choices, express him or herself, explore sports and arts, develop skills, values, tastes, styles, and talents. These opportunities may not be sufficient but are necessary to promote self-actualization. Note. These categorical needs are based on Maslow’s [33] hierarchy of needs. 10 Separation, Social Isolation, and Loss Current Opinion in Psychology 2022, 43:7–12 www.sciencedirect.com 20 MISSIR SEM BÖRN UPPLIFA VIÐ ÚTILOKUN FRÁ FORELDRI JENNIFER J. HARMAN O.FL.


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